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A Heartfelt Update on the Books
The books are in the final stage of editing and needs a little more time before they are ready to arrive.
The Healing We Avoid was originally scheduled to launch on March 11.  While the book is very close to complete, it has become clear that it needs a little more time and care before I can release it in a way that feels fully aligned, responsible, and worthy of your  trust.

I believe in honoring the birthing process of what is sacred rather than rushing something before it is fully ready.  Thank you for your patience, your trust, and your support through this final stretch.  An updated release date will be shared soon.

Pre-orders remain active, and all existing orders will be honored.

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If you've ever said, "I don't want to keep reacting like this"... I wrote this for you.

Most of us have a complicated relationship with truth.  We ask other people to be honest with us while we quietly abandon ourselves - minimizing, rationalizing, performing, or pretending we're "fine." And when our nervous system doesn't feel safe, our internal protectors step forward and do what they were trained to do: defend, disappear, please, control, or shut down.

The Healing We Avoid is an invitation to meet those protectors with compassion - without letting them run your life.

This is not a book about fixing yourself.
It's a book about returning to yourself.
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Pre-Order Today! 

The Healing We Avoid: What Our Triggers Are Trying to Teach Us
Pre-order today and receive a free gift to support you right now:
​the Triggers-to-Truth Starter Kit (PDF)
When you pre-order The Healing We Avoid, you'll receive the Triggers-to-Truth Starter Kit (PDF) - a gentle, powerful companion designed to help you meet your triggers with truth, tenderness, and self-leadership.

If the book is the mirror, this Starter Kit is the tool you can reach for in real time.

Inside the Starter Kit
  • A simple Trigger Map to name what's happening underneath the reaction
  • The hand-on-heart practice: "The truth is..."
  • A quick reset to help you return to center
  • Repair phrases to support honest, connected conversations
  • reflection prompts you can use alone or with a partner
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This is for you if you want support immediately - before the book even arrives.
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How to claim your Pre-Order Gift

  • Pre-Order the book​

  • Forward your confirmation email to: [email protected]
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  • We'll send your Starter Kit PDF within 24-48 hrs
Pre-ordering the book(s) is a choice to: 
  • tell the truth with more compassion
  • stop abandoning yourself in hard moments
  • learn how to come back to center
  • build relationships that can hold honesty and love
As a thank-you to early supporters, the pre-order price is offered at $19.99.  The retail price upon release will be $24.99.

Pre-order price:$19.99
Published retail price: $24.99
Organizational Edition: $34.99

FAQ

When will I receive the Starter Kit?
Within 24-48 hours after you forward your receipt.
Is the Starter kit printable?
Yes. It's designed to look beautiful on-screen and print cleanly.
CAn i share the starter kit?
It's for personal use. If someone else wants it, invite them to pre-order so they can receive their own copy.
I didn't get my bonus - what should i do?
Email me at: [email protected] and include your receipt (order number).  I'll make it right.
This book is for the ones who are ready to stop repeating cycles and start choosing truth with tenderness.  

​Thank you for supporting this work at the beginning.  Every pre-order is more than a purchase - it's a vote for cultures and relationships that can hold honesty, accountability, and love.

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